Flirting tips for Boys
1.
Looks don't matter? Physical
attractiveness matters, yet the physical attractiveness matters less with
girls. With guys, most of the time there will always be a look that suits them.
Try growing a beard, change your hairstyle, wear new clothes etc. Facial hair
can change the look of your face dramatically. Some people suit it, some people
don't. In essence, don't be afraid to experiment with your look, try anything,
you'll eventually find the look that suits you.
2.
Wear a nice watch Girls for some
reason are attracted to watches. Perhaps they're shiny, but I've noticed that
girls will often notice you're watch if you're wearing one. Try and wear an
unusual watch, or just a nice looking watch. It gets their attention. Could
also try wearing perhaps an older watch (or one with a leather strap for
example instead of the big metallic watches everyone has these days).
3.
Wear Classic clothes. It's hard to
explain this one, but most of the time I've noticed is that everyone seems to
wear similar clothes (always trendy clothes, indie etc.). It's better to stand
out from the crowd. Wear clothes which don't age so much (i.e. could look just
as good on a 20 year old as a 40 year old). In all honesty they often look
better too. Formal shirts (open the collar) worn under V neck jumpers and jeans
for example is a good look. Not to complicated, but looks good.
4.
Wear a soft jumper. Wear a
jumper that feels soft. Girls often like touching guys if they're attracted to
them. Wearing a jumper that feels nice invites them to touch really (or snuggle
up close to you).
5.
Don't be afraid to act a bit stupid
sometimes generally girls like to feel like they're the more mature ones.
That's partly the reason why some girls often like to go for older men. I don't
think girls are generally more mature, but it can't hurt to play along.
6.
Intelligence doesn't matter so much. Girls
often say they like to date someone who's intelligent. But I don't really think
intelligence can be measured or quantified properly. You can be intelligent in
something and stupid in others. This applies for both sexes, but I don't really
believe in actively searching for someone who is intelligent, or look down on
others that are not. You fall in love with the personality, not his/her
intelligence. Having said that good humour and being witty is a good thing.
7.
Touch the girl you are interested by
"accident" This applies mostly to a crowded area/a club especially.
Now I'm not advocating guys to grope the bum of the girl their interested in.
Touch in an area that isn't likely to cause much of a reaction, e.g. her arm.
She probably won't say anything as it looks like it was an accident, yet it
might get her attention to you. Also you might feel more confident talking to
her (and she to you) as you've already made physical contact once. I know it
sounds silly, but it does work to some extent. Obviously the longer you want to
remain contact, the more attention you may get from the girl, but of course too
long she might get worried.
8.
Wear some nice deodorant, after shave
etc. Kind of obvious really
9.
When talking about yourself try and
make it interesting. I find it quite hard to talk about myself generally.
People often find this hard and even start talking about silly things e.g. GCSE
etc. Talking about your University courses etc. might be slightly better. Even
then I often choose to avoid this, as it gets very tiring talking about
Medicine, me wanting to be a doctor etc. I sometimes talk about volunteer work
as that's slightly more interesting, and since I do quite a bit of volunteer
work about children I can often work in some sort of joke of something funny
that's happened whilst doing it.
10. Pick up lines do work. They don't work in the way they're intended, but
some of the funnier ones can make girls laugh. I'd advise them if you tell them
in a jokey voice. Can be a nice ice breaker.
11. You don't need so much confidence to attract girls. It's a myth when
people say girls love confidence etc. If you're happy with you personality as
well as your flaws girls love that. Shyness (which I suffer with to some
extent), can often be endearing if you just be yourself. In fact the good thing
with flirting with girls is you are only flirting for a relatively short time.
And when you're in a relationship, generally everything feels more comfortable.
In fact making friends is often harder, as you have to foster friendships over
a long period of time, break into friendship circles, and always remain interesting.
Being nice and polite really isn't enough, you have to grab the attention of
others. To be honest I find it really hard to do that, it's a lot harder than
flirting.
12. Try and maintain a nice/sincere tone It's often hard to do this. If the
tone of your voice is nice, girls will like listening to you (hence you'll be
better at flirting). Generally speaking a bit slower (more emphasis on certain
words, but don't overuse this effect) and sounding words out properly. Don't
talk to fast (which can happen if you're nervous) as that's a turn off. If the
girl is really into you, sometimes she doesn't really even listen to what you
say, just hears the tone of your voice and she gazes (perhaps lovingly) into
your eyes. Funny really, as girls are often the ones complaining guys don't
listen to what they say but really the opposite is true quite a lot too.
13. Being nerdy/geeky can be a good thing. You don't really have to act cool
as such to attract girls. Mostly the turnoff for girls is geeky/nerdy
clothing/look. This however can be easily changed by wearing different clothes,
getting a new hairstyle etc. Of course don't go on about Star trek or things
she has no interest in.
14. You don't have to drink alcohol before flirting. You can, but if you can
"pull" without alcohol, it makes it all the more satisfying
. Plus I don't think alcohol
gives you that much of an advantage anyway (I don't even drink)
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