Flirting tips for Girls
1. Get
closer! Then break eye contact just long enough to glance down at his
lips. It's a subtle cue that you're open to a kiss!
2. Choose a
theme song. Play it to pump yourself up while you're getting ready. Then
whenever you hear it when you're out, it will make you feel good — and bold
enough to say hi to the hottest of the hot guys!
3. Wear
dangly earrings. They draw attention to the smooth curves of our neck —
it's a classy way to subtly show skin.
4. Keep gum
or Tic Tacs in your purse."Want one?" is the world's easiest
icebreaker.
5. Watch
Taylor Swift's video "I'm Only Me When I'm With You" and channel
her goofy, fun-loving personality. It's exactly what guys mean when they say,
"Confidence is sexy."
6. Master
the bump-and-flatter. Run into a cute guy at a crowded party. Say,
"Oh, sorry — I become a total klutz around cute guys." Then just
introduce yourself.
7. Make
dates spontaneously. Text, "I'm craving a McFlurry!! Drop what ur
doin and hit the drive-thru w me? :)"
8. Tease him
a little. Example: When a guy you're talking to first tells you his name,
say, "What?" so he has to lean in to repeat himself. Then say,
"What?" again with a smile. You'll break the ice with your playful
joke.
9. Practice
your technique. Sneak in a little flirting whenever you can, like with
your hot waiter. You'll be amazed how "practice flirting" boosts your
confidence when you're talking to a guy you really like.
10. Let a hot
guy catch you looking at him! When he does, smile — it will give him the
in to approach you.
11. Be
interested. Make a point to show how involved you are in the conversation
by asking questions or saying "yeah" and "mmm-hmm." Without
realizing why, he'll be encouraged to keep talking.
12. Memorize
a great joke (or one that's so bad it's good!). Knowing you can pull it
out anytime means you'll never have an awkward pause in conversation. Plus, if
you make a guy laugh, you're totally in!
13. Wear
red! Scientists have shown that guys are instinctively attracted to this
color — so wearing it instantly makes you hotter.
14. Ask him
out "by accident." Text him "What r u up to tonite?"
When he replies, say, "Sorry that was for a friend—but yeah, what r u
doing?" The tiny diss will make him work harder.
15. Check out
his clothes and ask about the sports team, band, or brand on his T-shirt.
He'll notice that you noticed.
16. Spritz
perfume on the back of your neck — guys will catch your scent when you
lean in for a hug.
17. Be
obvious sometimes. Like when you "accidentally" throw your
Frisbee toward cute guys in the park, an exaggerated apology lets them know
you're flirting on purpose (and in on the joke).
18. Leave
this Facebook comment: "This pic is hilarious. What's actually going
on there?" After he responds, say, "You should tell me in person. :)
Wanna hang out this weekend?"
19. Get text
savvy. "When you're texting, don't respond to every single thing a
guy says. Leave some questions hanging. He'll be more invested in the
conversation if he has to chase it a little!" — Brody Jenner.
20. Post
status updates about movies, shows or games you're going to see — if he's
a fan too, he'll have a reason to comment (and you'll have an excuse to invite
him along!).
21. Introduce
a cute guy to your friend. It's easier to approach him for someone else —
and then you'll get to talk to his cute buddies!
22. Pass a
handwritten note at a party that says, "Just saying hi!" Slip it
into his pocket — it's a million times cuter than a text.
23. Flirt before you
see him: Text, "U should wear that blue shirt tonight — it makes your
arms look hot! :)"
24. Pretend
you already know a guy you want to talk to. When you "realize"
the mistake, say, "Oh, I thought you were someone else, but you're
actually cuter."
25. Make him
nervous. Here's how: The first time a new crush texts you, write back,
"Who is this?" When he explains, say, "JK, how could I forget
you?!? :)" He'll be hooked!
26. Paint
your nails a super-girly color. It will help you get in touch with your
flirty side — and make you think about how great your hands will look
playfully wrapped around the bicep of a cutie!
27. Flirt
with your eyes. "It's all in the way you look at him: Walk by, kind
of look him up and down, give him a slight smile, and keep walking. You can
have an entire conversation without saying a word." — Ne-Yo
28. Channel
Whitney Port. She's the definition of breezy —
she never looks ruffled around guys. If you don't have that same
completely cool attitude, fake it until you really feel it.
29. Give him
a (sorta) hard time. "I love when girls make fun of you a bit and try
to drive you off-sides. That's the best — when you're like, 'Whoa, whoa!' —
Chace Crawford
30. Leave him
wanting more. Go in for a kiss at the end of the night — but then turn
your head and whisper you had a nice time instead!
31. After
you've been talking for awhile say, "Can I tell you a secret?"
He'll say yes — but then just tell him never mind, it's stupid, you changed
your mind. It will drive him crazy wondering what you were going to say — and
that you won't give in!
32. Send a
quick flirt text a minute after you trade numbers. It will take him by
surprise and make him smile.
33. Call him
out. When you notice a guy checking you out, let him know you're onto him
and you'll ooze confidence. A laid-back joke ("Please don't tell me I have
something in my teeth!") will make him laugh, so it's not too bold.
34. Picture-text
him a movie poster: And say, "4 PM show — wanna go? I'll even share
my popcorn!"
35. Change
the wallpaper on his phone to one of the cheesiest preset pictures — the
sillier the better. Then hand it back to him and joke, "This just seemed more
'you.'" It's a funny way to keep up your flirty banter.
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